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Marriage Dysfunction
Pathology of Marriage
Woman's Behavior
She has a dream/romantic image of the lover
in her heart that invariably crashes after marriage.
This is so because her image is fantasy,
which she is expecting in reality.
Even if she is enamored and
head over heels in love with a guy,
when she marries living together
becomes mundane chore. The attraction
begins to fade and vanishes,
very often leading to the
belief, "I have made a wrong
choice in selecting marriage partner."
In day to day living there are expectations
that are unmet. Often the only easy
and accessible outlet for expressing
irritation gathered else where at other
time or due to conditions like
premenstrual syndrome keep the
fire of anger burning, leading
to resentment. [A sober word for hatred]
Example: She may say, "I am sick
of him."Often in such a love marriage
where they thought they were made for
each other and got married with
social approval love making is no
more than photocopies of the same old paper.
The novelty ceases.
Man's Behavior
For him the game of attracting and winning woman is over.
Human Behavior
The thumb rule in human living is
anything that you have is not cherished,
loved enough or acknowledged. In fact
after you have it mind turns towards
something that you do not have.
Do you realize that mind is programmed
to be unhappy? Mind incessantly seeks
what it does not have, and the things that
it has do not suffice, do not quench
the thirst. There is desire for more.
What you have is not enough. What you
have does not appear as fascinating as you
thought when you set out to get it and
went forth full speed zealously to get it.
No achievement is totally fulfilling.
You cannot rest on your laurels
totally and once for all satisfied.
These are the treacherous tricks of the mind.
ASK THE MEDICAL DOCTOR
We maintain strict confidentiality.
Marriage Dysfunction
Pathology of Marriage
Woman's Behavior
She has a dream/romantic image of the lover
in her heart that invariably crashes after marriage.
This is so because her image is fantasy,
which she is expecting in reality.
Even if she is enamored and
head over heels in love with a guy,
when she marries living together
becomes mundane chore. The attraction
begins to fade and vanishes,
very often leading to the
belief, "I have made a wrong
choice in selecting marriage partner."
In day to day living there are expectations
that are unmet. Often the only easy
and accessible outlet for expressing
irritation gathered else where at other
time or due to conditions like
premenstrual syndrome keep the
fire of anger burning, leading
to resentment. [A sober word for hatred]
Example: She may say, "I am sick
of him."Often in such a love marriage
where they thought they were made for
each other and got married with
social approval love making is no
more than photocopies of the same old paper.
The novelty ceases.
Man's Behavior
For him the game of attracting and winning woman is over.
Human Behavior
The thumb rule in human living is
anything that you have is not cherished,
loved enough or acknowledged. In fact
after you have it mind turns towards
something that you do not have.
Do you realize that mind is programmed
to be unhappy? Mind incessantly seeks
what it does not have, and the things that
it has do not suffice, do not quench
the thirst. There is desire for more.
What you have is not enough. What you
have does not appear as fascinating as you
thought when you set out to get it and
went forth full speed zealously to get it.
No achievement is totally fulfilling.
You cannot rest on your laurels
totally and once for all satisfied.
These are the treacherous tricks of the mind.
ASK THE MEDICAL DOCTOR
We maintain strict confidentiality.
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